I cannot honestly say that things have changed much in the way of my being able to fully submitt. I think once we get a few things sorted out in our 'normal' lives, things will change. Right now I am always concerned about Tg getting deported, the diconnection notices sitting on the kitchen table, the unpaid rent and wether we are raising our daughter right.
Once a few of those big stresses have been removed, I think that it will be able to focus better.