i found this quote about alpha submissives -
in that respect...i would assume that an omega submissive was submissive in his/her day to day life as well as in a D/s relationship. i don't think being an omega submissive would prevent you from being in a position of authority at work or anything...i just think omega submissives project their submissiveness more in their day to day lives than alpha submissives do.The submissive alpha female is a woman who is strong, confident, bold, and assertive in her life and her dealings with people in general – but who wants a dominant man in her life because she finds it sexually exciting to be dominated by a strong, powerful man. She might or might not be in a position of authority at work; but she has a personality and a level of competence such that she could be in such a position and command respect.
i'm glad this topic came up though because that is NOT what i thought alpha and omega submissives meant at all! for some reason i was thinking more along the lines of 2 submissives in a relationship with a Dominant...1 being the alpha sub...does that make sense?
heck hopefully someone else with more knowledge on all this can help us out here! lol