For me, honestly, it depends.

If it's given as "don't touch, don't play, no nothing until I say so"...then I tend to have a hard time with it. (Of course lately, being busy, it hasn't been an issue!)

On the other hand, if it's accompanied by lots of teasing/play/support...then its much more of a challenge, and as such, more appealing to me. There's nothing that pushes my buttons like a "seemingly impossible" challenge.

So I suppose a lot of it is *His* attitude towards the CR, in my opinion. If it's a challenge, count me in. If it just something to do (because I've seen so many people treat it as routine)...then I'd just rather not. It needs to *mean something*, to me.

Just my 3 cents anyway (because I rambled...), so feel free to ignore it.

Aussiegirl, good luck! *winks* And have fun, too!