Quote Originally Posted by Wontworry
I agree that it would help any Dom to understand a sub's reactions much better if he had been dominated at some point. But as I see it, being a Dom is in my blood and something that I can't change (and dont want to !). You may as well say that I would understand a female pov better if I had been a female at some point. Its true but kinda irrelevant. Just my opinion.
I hear ya. The difference for me, I guess, is the role I'm playing isn't based on my needs so much as my lover's, especially when I'm in love. Right now, my slave needs me to be a completely Dominant MALE, so that's all I want to be, too.

Which, when you think about it, might be seen as a submissive trait. Hmm... the human brain is a weird little thing, ain't it?

Quote Originally Posted by Dngnkeeper
This is also a discussion that comes up from time to time...
Quote Originally Posted by Curtis
Ooh! Really?...
I'd surely like to hear more of both your thoughts on this. Care to elaborate?