Quote Originally Posted by mastercoyote
I try hard not to judge, in the hope that others will follow suit, but I have to say that overall I'm still a bit turned off by some people's need to to regiment and categorize their sexual activities. (No offense, Erasor.) This is my main dilemma about getting involved in the local scene and mentoring with another Master. I'd appreciate some training on technique (esp. safety), but the last thing I need in my life is someone telling me what I should or shouldn't enjoy doing (or having done to me). If I wanted that, I'd go to church.
I never said what you should or shouldn't enjoy doing. But calling ones self a slave or being a slave isn't about an activity. A slave is a deep level of submission and sacrifice and giving up of control. calling a bottom a slave or a slave a bottom is like calling a Geo metro a sports car.