Quote Originally Posted by usafmedic22 View Post
annie would you be willing to explain what limitatios you were speaking of when you said that until your collar were in place there were limitations set by your Dom for your protection? I'm trying to wrap my head around this concept, and some examples from you would greately help if you were willing to share them...
i won't list the exact "limitations" that were in place. i will say that perhaps "limitations" is not the right word. More like His own personal rules that were used to help protect me from my own emotions. He understands how deeply emotions (at least for me) are tied to submission and so the rules were in place to ensure that the emotions were properly respected and yet not taken advantage of by either of us. (If that makes any sense.) i knew about some of the rules and some of them i didn't realize until later.

Think i need to clarify that we both agree that the emotions are good, needed, etc. for determining a relationship but there is also a point where they can become determental, especially when a sub (me) is starting to function in that mode again after an extended time away from it. The object was to ensure that the emotions weren't in control but were enhancing, facilitating the experience, and used to determine the direction of the relationship. Weather that was to move towards accepting His collar or to terminating the relationship completely to anything in between and yet i would still be left as strong as i was (if not stronger) before starting the exploration...

Ok... i don't think that makes ANY sense. i'm sorry, it's late and i don't know how else to explain it... lol. Good luck!