Take baby steps. Talk a lot about it. Answer all of her questions at length and with good information. Assure her that BDSM is not some monster waiting to jump out of the closet at her.Originally Posted by Mnemonic
Keep things very, very simple at first. Show her simply what a rope feels like tied around her wrist. You don't even have to tie her wrist to anything, just tie the rope on her and let her feel it. Or if you want her to wear a collar, let her feel that on her neck and tell her what all it symbolizes.
Most importantly, know what you are doing. Be able to explain thing to her so she feels safe doing them with you. Let her know that you are not out to harm her in any way and that you want to do this to bring the two of you closer together.
Finally, if she needs any support or advice, have her create an account here. I'm sure we'll all love to tell her what to expect.Of course, we might also confuse her with our multitudes of responses, but advice is advice. When it's free, it can't hurt to listen to it.