*bear hugs red* and just when were you planning on telling me???!!!! :P congrats to you both girlie, you definitely deserve it, and i'm sure i'd say the same if i'd have met him. hopefully one day we have the chance to meet in person and chat....
thanks a bunch guys....i'm very happy to have the opportunity to read so many personal feelings/thoughts on this...i realize that it's a somewhat touchy and very intimate subject...