Quote Originally Posted by Mnemonic
Any suggestions what to do??
Those are great suggestions by Tourguide, GaryWilcox and Dngnkeepr.

I'll throw in my two cents and agree that you have to start with small steps.

A long time ago I knew a girl who had reservations about bondage, in her case it was a similar story. We talked alot, and the first several scenes were non-sexual. In each of those cases, I made sure the bondage was very "escapable". Often it was no more than a scarf wrapped around her wrists, while she held the ends in her own hands. I just had her lean up against me that night while we watched a movie. For the longest time, every time I tied her, I made sure that she knew she could get out of it if she wanted.

After a while her holding the ends were replaced by hitches that could be released by pulling on one of the ends, or trying that end to something so that if she wanted she could pull against it and release her self. We probably went through about three months of trust building exercises like that.

The first night I had her in tight bondage she safe worded after only a few minutes. We talked afterwards, and she said she worded, because she wanted to know that I would actually release her when she wanted.

Two nights later, she asked me to tie her again, and that time there was no safeword.

I don't know if she ever practiced bondage with anyone else after I moved, but I know that at least for a while, she was able to enjoy it with me.

To take another approach, depending on where you live, some groups put on bondage demonstrations, which would be a non-threatening way to introduce her as a third party.

Above all, don't push her there if she's not ready to go.