Quote Originally Posted by Curtis
At the request of a previous poster, I've gone back through this thread three times, and it seems to me that a major point has been missed. I see no indication that the girlfriend in question is submissive in nature. Several people have made suggestions for how to handle it if she's uninterested, but what if she's dominantly inclined?

I was thinking about this as I was driving to LA and back the last two days. It goes without saying that if she truly has no desire to even explore BDSM, that you probably will not have great success in convincing her.