...as you add different toppings to your ice cream it gets more and more beyond just being vanilla. So it is the same way with vanilla sex, as you try different styles, positions, add toys, more than one partner, partners of the same sex and such, you get further and further away from the norm (if there is such a thing). It's hard to believe that in most States, oral and anal sex are still illegal...ha! But anyway, that's my take on what's vanilla sex and what's not.
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