Thank you for the response I recently joined this site because of the stories, they are very creative but right now I have other things on my mind. This dominant has been training me the last five months and we were dating, but we also decided to leave our options open...we've been getting emotional with one another to a point...but he has been scared to getting too close with me because he doesn't want either of us getting hurt in the end. In the past he told me that he dated alot of submissives in the past who had problems and I told him I understand that...he says I am the only submissive who was more stable. Anyways he recently told me his ex came to him for help...and he told me she needed a place to stay, he didn't tell me anything about the situation. He just said he hopes we can still be as we are that he still wanted to be close....he kept saying that...it felt like he was apologizing for something. It felt like he knew something is going to happen...it just confuses me...he knows in the end I don't want something poly..and he knows I tend to be a romantic even though I am a submissive. We live about an hour away, we don't have a full time comittment, but we talk to one another all the time...I haven't been talking to him. I got the advice from someone to avoid him...til he see things clearly. But I don't know if that is the right thing to do. Any opinions?

Quote Originally Posted by Mobius
What is the situation.

We are all after all human and suject to error. If he/she is wrong then you have 2 choices do what he/she says and when the error is found he/she will be humilitated by there own error. Witch you will probly be punished for. Or you could speak candid with her by using a safe word out side of Bdsm and discuss it.

Just a thought I can not give 100 percent advice becouse I do not know your situation.

Moby