Quote Originally Posted by anonymouse View Post
There are two things I find personally confronting within the scene. The first is interracial play of white dominant/black slave. It's not something I apply any kind of PC judgement on, as I know the couple very well and know them to be very much in love with each other. It's simply that I feel uncomfortable watching them play together, probably because of some kind of PC guilt on my part.

The second is a uniform fetish involving Nazi paraphenalia. This fetish is more confronting to me in fiction and fantasy than it is in real life, probably because in real life scenes I've witnessed, the uniform was just a costume and I knew the people wearing them were not in the least anti-Semitic. The BDSM PC-incorrectness for this fetish thus varies according to locality.

The third... (OK, so there are three things. I wasn't expecting the Spanish Inquisition! lol) I find hard core M/F humiliation scenes difficult to watch. I've seen some that appear to border on misogyny and my feeling is misogyny has no place in BDSM. However, it's again also the case that my perceptions and feelings of the scenes I've witnessed were contradicted by those actually engaged in the play. Clearly, some women enjoy that kind of profound humiliation so, it's not my place to impose any kind of PC judgement on it.

Viva l'tolerance!

anonymouse
I've been writing on a story for a bit about a black/white couple where the guy really is a nazi and so is the woman. Only to confront my own feelings and emotions about this. I haven't gotten very far and it is so incredibly offensive, (ie non-PC) even when it's clearly only a twisted fantasy.

We'll see if it becomes anything. I don't know in which direction to take it. My instinct is to make it some happy ending where they both understand that it's only about love, but then again, that's a bit "Hollywood". It would be more fun if it just gets worse and worse. But that in turn would be very hard to write. Especially since my number one favorite proof-reader is Jewish