Truly, which is better: to have loved and lost or never to have loved at all?

Sometimes i think it's better not to know what you're missing when you're lonely... better than the heartbreak you go through when you think everything is perfect and you know you'll never meet anyone else like that person.

sorry.. not trying to be negative... i know you're supposed to appreciate the memories and everything you had... but the absence burns and burns and burns... until you get over it... which usually takes less time than you think it will- and by then you can smile on the happy memories... and not cry.. just gotta wait it out...