How about instead of more sexual, you consider more sensual ? (hope I spelled that right).


I don't think me and my wife are more or less sexual than any other married couple with kids that are still living at home.
However, I do think we, at times, are more sensual, because through D/s, or S&M, or bondage, or any of a number of 'kinky' sexual playing, I consider us more sensual than 'vanilla' couples.

If my wife passed away, I don't think I could be sexually fullfilled in a 'normal' relationship, yet, 90% of the time, my wife and I are in a 'normal' relationship (I'm telling ya.. those wacky kids but a crimp on things <G> )..

Take 'wax' play for instance. We both greatly enjoy wax play and it is usually done in a very sensual manor like a very long forplay session.