Quote Originally Posted by Alex Bragi
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I bet you do, and I'm glad you do -- passionate and loving men are just so hot! But I just bet you never have a hard time getting a hard on when you’re watching them either.

Personally, I don't think I could deal with a dom/man like you have described. Sex to me must be passionate. I want my sex full of it! I want the kind of sex you have to clean up with a mop and bucket afterwards! And lots of it!

But most of all I want love with my sex, with a man who's not afraid to show it.
I agree with your position, here. I think that a dom/me without emotion would just be a punishment machine. One of the beauties of proper D/s, seems to me, is the interaction with the ~emotions~ of the other. The subs' 'profit' in the situation is the pleasure they feel in pleasuring the dom/me. The dom/me's 'profit' is their own satisfaction, and the pleasuring and control of the subs.

Someone who keeps themselves from showing their emotions usually ends up totally selfish, alone without friends or loved ones, and 'emotionally constipated'.

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