Quote Originally Posted by chksng19
I agree with your position, here. I think that a dom/me without emotion would just be a punishment machine. One of the beauties of proper D/s, seems to me, is the interaction with the ~emotions~ of the other. The subs' 'profit' in the situation is the pleasure they feel in pleasuring the dom/me. The dom/me's 'profit' is their own satisfaction, and the pleasuring and control of the subs.

Someone who keeps themselves from showing their emotions usually ends up totally selfish, alone without friends or loved ones, and 'emotionally constipated'.

chksng19
I agree with you ,but at times it may just be the persons nature (as the case is for me). They may be of that type that fears showing emotions.

I am from that type and to be honest with you it hurts her if I pretend to have so much emotions and she feels guilty.

I am not brutal ,but I think someone who keeps his or her emotions in check are not bad doms as they will know when to stop and approach carefully and try not to cross the limits.