Quote Originally Posted by dr_mabeuse
Looking at a lot of BDSM videos and pics, it always seems to me that the Dom is not very into it emotionally. Maybe it's because they're working in front of a camera, but they always seem very cold and distant to me, and I was wondering whether that in itself is a turn-on to a sub.
i've also seen this a lot in public scenes. So much so that Master and i started using the term "Stand and flog" to describe people like that. i'm not sure if it's some myth that Doms are to be that way that causes this kind of behavior or not.
Personally i love when Master shows emotion. i can't get enough of it during a session, the love, the lust and self control not to mention the stern sadistic emotions as well. All sides of who He is tends to come out during a scene and i crave every one of them.
The only time i've seen Him hold back and be distant is during a punishment. The distance, is a form of punishment in itself but also a way for Him to keep His loving and caring side from getting the task done.