Quote Originally Posted by midnightsky
Is there a way that i can nicely explain to her that the real world is differnt from online?
Yes. Just tell her that typing the words "I swing the heavy leather flogger and strike you hard across the ass, making a loud cracking sound as the leather hits your flesh" hurts a hell of a lot less than when the flogger actually hits your ass.

If she needs a demonstration, I'd say provide her with that one.