Quote Originally Posted by Alex Bragi
It’s really all a matter of taste, isn’t it?
For sure! I'm not condemning people for having different tastes than mine and I can fully understand the enjoyment of graphic sex. When I am turned on by it, boy! I just want to explode!

However I find very little graphic sex that does that too me. I've analysed this ad infinitum and I think the problem is, that most writers and artists of erotica tend to illustrate graphic sex rather than live it and so the graphic sex appears detached. Observing sex in an objective manner reduces it to a very silly jig. If the author/artist is radiating their own desires, that tends to permeate through to me.

Maybe I'm just talking a lot of bullshit but I'm trying.