Quote Originally Posted by Caine
My first instinct is to tell her to tell him he needs to choose (they’re married by the way) between her and his online girl. It seems to me that if he cared about her happiness and took his responsibility as her dominant seriously he wouldn’t pull this on her.

I think your first instict is spot on. And I whole heartly agree with all of the above.

At the end of the day its still nonconsentual, BDSM or not.