Just my $5.50 worth. I am training morgan to be my slave, this doesn't mean (at least to me) that she has nothing else in her life.

She is a strong willed, intelligent and competent lady. We have contracted her slavery requirements and more importantly those areas that I have little or no say in. This may sound strange to some but what right do I have to control her profession life or her family life.

I often ask for her opinion and value her answers, she is free to question or suggest to me anything if she does it in an appropriate manner.

Once again a good Master is after his slave being the best she can be in all aspects of her life.

The fantasy that anyone can totally control another person at all times means that controlling person has little time for their own life.

I agree with the set of collars since it shows that both have made a large comitment to the other.