What was the first submissive thing you did?

[Jadetiger]

Shaved my pussy. It still itches.

[learningtopleez]

Shaved my pussy. It still itches.

LOL...I remember that feeling well Jadetiger! Just keep it up and eventually, it's not as noticeable...the itching that is!

Btw...a big welcome from me...I've sorta been wallowing in my own despair lately and have not taken the time to say hello!!

Hello!!

[bug]

let's see here....the first submissive thing i ever did was letting myself be tied up and held at my lovers mercy by Him and another woman and They were exceptionally fun which is why i married Him and still call Her *laffs*

[magicgrl]

When you first decided to follow the d/s lifestyle, what was the first thing you did, or had done to you?

Was it a little bit of light bondage? Or a spanking? Or maybe you were ordered to please your dom. with no pleasure for you?

There seem to be some people here that are fairly new to this, and I just thought we could give them some ideas ...

i had done some online stuff, but the first serious submissive action i took when we were finally together in person was to strip, get on my knees, present a riding crop to Him and ask permission to be His slave. That was more than five years ago.

[Sunyata]

I was a child. Way too young to masturbate. I found a pair of metal play handcuffs for kids and sneaked around to the side of the house where no one could see me. Then I bound my wrists behind my back. I just sat there for a long time enjoying the feeling of being bound...

[learner]

We have been married for 13 years and it is only in the last 12 months that I have allowed my desire for subsmission to surface - too much Story of O at an impressionable age! - but I'm not sure that my husband is in to it as much as me. I can only do submissive when I have had too much to drink - i guess that the real test of my dedication is when I can do it sober. And we have nipple clamps (which I love!) and vibrators and apparantly a paddle (I can't wait). It is all very new to us and I wish that my husband could get some guidance as to what it takes to be dominant (as this is not his natural position - up until now) it is causing real conflict.

[sirken]

When I was younger living at home , older woman nextdoor introduced Me to D/s I would go to her house to cut grass and do trees and other odd jobs, Went over one day and she was sunning self in back yard in bikini, did the work and was called over afterwards to her , started talking as we always did and she asked if I had ever felt the urge to tie a woman up and have my way with her, what boy in his right mind hasnt, guess all started before then with cartoons and herion being tied up remember Dudley Dooright and penelope.

[Ranai]

Hi sirken & welcome,
Aaah, the handsome lad in the garden... If you would like to elaborate, or if you have some more interesting memories to share, here are a couple of threads that might interest you:
What was the first age?
Early fantasies
Enjoy!

[learningtopleez]

The first submissive thing I did was to (at the time, not now!) mastubate over the phone for my Dom as he told me what to do and where to touch, etc! I must say it was quite a powerful orgasm! I still think it was his voice! But whatever it was...it was goooood!!

~ltp~

[Sir Lanceloth]

We have been married for 13 years and it is only in the last 12 months that I have allowed my desire for subsmission to surface - too much Story of O at an impressionable age! - but I'm not sure that my husband is in to it as much as me. I can only do submissive when I have had too much to drink - i guess that the real test of my dedication is when I can do it sober. And we have nipple clamps (which I love!) and vibrators and apparantly a paddle (I can't wait). It is all very new to us and I wish that my husband could get some guidance as to what it takes to be dominant (as this is not his natural position - up until now) it is causing real conflict.

be carefull, personaly i will not do bdsm when drunk.

My first and only submissive thing ive done was allow my gf to tie me up, and of course to follow her commands for an evening (same scene). was actually rather funny, i still consider myself a dom though Oh allmost forgot, it was rather recent, only a month or so ago. I might do it again, if she forces me to it

[Masters_petal]

Master has always been of the Dominant nature.. and i have always known i was submissive deep down. We've been married for 14 years, and we did a lot of talking about this lifestyle and our dark secrets and fantasies, a lot of research, and a lot more talking before we eased our way into it... that was over 6 years ago.

We started out with a small flogger and servitude (and that was all i need to know that i wanted to be His collared one).... and then onto bondage.. and then onto everything else... i couldn't image any other lifestyle, nor could He

[Xelebes]

Well.... I was in high school in the Communications and Technology 10 class, the class was separated into five groups where each was put into a station. I was with a group who was doing video at the time - I forget what the other group was doing, possibly photography. Anyways, the teacher left us in the classroom (there was the class room, the printing lab and the silkscreen lab) so were all together. We were admittedly slacking on our assignments and out of our boredom I was ordered to sit on a chair. On the teacher's desk there was a few rolls of masking tape. They tied me up until I moved and taped my mouth shut leaving me to be laughed at in our mischief. The best part was when they pulled off the tape before the teacher came back to check on us. They were totally freaked that I was going to scream when they pulled the tape off of my mouth and neck, concerned about the pain they were putting me under.

It was fun - it would actually take a while before I realised that I would like it more in bed than anything.

[alura]

I have a friend who went to one of those new painless up and coming hair removal places. First she got her legs and underarms done, then her nether regions. Although she was embarrassed at the time about her privates and had to come back five times before it was gone forever, she told me it's the best money she ever spent.

Shaved my pussy. It still itches.

[Jadetiger]

I have a friend who went to one of those new painless up and coming hair removal places. First she got her legs and underarms done, then her nether regions. Although she was embarrassed at the time about her privates and had to come back five times before it was gone forever, she told me it's the best money she ever spent.

I may have to spend the money. I still get razor burn.

[alura]

I know your post is a year old but...me, too, albear. Never had actually done it, but I have fantasized about it since I was 6 years old.

Why haven't I done anything about it yet, you may ask? Wellll...because my ex was/is vanilla and although it's been a year and a half, I'm still to terrified to even date, much less get intimate with someone.

But someday, my Vibrating Prince will come......

a little bit of light bondage...
it has taken me the last three years to realise what truly fulfills me, but i'm here now

[alura]

You should. It's literally painless these days.

I know that this sounds disgusting, but I'm growing my leg hair out long even as we speak, so that I can get my legs AND *that* done. It's not as expensive as you would think. And alot of times, they offer payment options.

I may have to spend the money. I still get razor burn.

[Slave Speak]

just a lil' thread revival...

Originally Posted by LadyAmanda
When you first decided to follow the d/s lifestyle, what was the first thing you did, or had done to you?

Was it a little bit of light bondage? Or a spanking? Or maybe you were ordered to please your dom. with no pleasure for you?

There seem to be some people here that are fairly new to this, and I just thought we could give them some ideas ...

i've had fantasies of being spanked and dominated by girls ever since i was 12. i searched our secondary school library for literature on spanking and during the internet boom, spent countless hours browsing through sites such as corpun.com and spankingarchives.com. but no one ever knew i was into it. i guess was scared that i had feelings and stirrings of this kind. it was only as i browsed through the net did i realize that it was normal to have these fantasies. but still it was a closely kept secret of mine. until i met my girlfriend.

as our relationship grew, we started opening up to each other and it wasn't long till she found me out. the first thing i did after telling her my secrets was to ask her to spank me. i gave her a leather belt, dropped my pants and underpants and bent over the bed. but she was so concerned about hurting me that she ended up in tears. i assured her that it was ok, and little by little she started enjoying it as well. she just became my mistress a couple of months ago and is really seriouys about her dominating me. what used to be hesitant taps with the belt on my bottom are now searing strokes of the cane that bruises my buttocks real good. and she makes me wear a collar too and sometimes, doesn't allow me to wear clothes. i can just say that i'm really happy to oblige. we plan to marry soon.

[deepti699]

Hello Everyone, i am very new to this forum, infact this is my first post.

To answer the question, i guess the first submisive thing i did was not wear panties to work for the first time.

i was always conscious about it and had a difficult time keeping a straight face at work.

love,
deepti sinha

[alura]

just a lil' thread revival...
i've had fantasies of being spanked and dominated by girls ever since i was 12. i searched our secondary school library for literature on spanking and during the internet boom, spent countless hours browsing through sites such as corpun.com and spankingarchives.com. but no one ever knew i was into it. i guess was scared that i had feelings and stirrings of this kind. it was only as i browsed through the net did i realize that it was normal to have these fantasies. but still it was a closely kept secret of mine. until i met my girlfriend.

>>>I have a confession to make. I used to get in trouble on purpose, just to get a spanking. *sigh....boy that felt good!*<<<<

[Slave Speak]

LOL! so i'm not the only one, allura. hehe.

[maia]

The first thing I did, apart from deferring to Her and addressing Her as Ma'am, was to be chaste for 3 days and then masturbate over MSN Messenger under Her instructions. Oh joy! :sunny:

A lot of our contact was on Messenger, and I saved all our conversations. I decided when I got my new computer that it was time to let go (I'm not Hers any more), but sometimes I really miss having them to read back over.

[Sunshine]

This is a good thread isn`t it? Lots of people joining the discussion.
The first submissive thing of any note began with a conversation while on holiday with my boyfriend of 3 years (the one my mother described as the first one to get on the playing field....) Admittedly we were a few G + Ts worse for wear (and I know many people here do not go in for that)
Anyway the long and short of it was a very exciting conversation resulting in him becoming my Dom. Something I had only fantasised about being possible in a relationship. We agreed that we were very much excited by the idea of me being tied tightly by him and soundly spanked. 4 years later we are married and it is a wonderful situation.
Although my mouth does get away with me still and I sometimes act inappropriately to this day, I receive the punishment I deserve...

[slaaf pikkie]

Hi All/all,
This thread made me think back many, many years... :-) ... and i finally came to the conclusion that my first submissive thing happened at the age of 13, which was my very first sexual experience at the same time (apart from self-inflicted ones of course…).
For some reason i was staying over in the house of a good friend, same age as me, who had been ill for some time. He even had been in hospital for a few weeks. And had been cured. Later i learned he had been given hormones of some kind. This was a few months before my sleep over.
That night a mattress was laid on the floor for me to sleep on. He of course would be sleeping in his own bed. When he was visiting the bathroom i quickly changed to my pyjamas (yes, that happened in those days…) and slipped under the blankets. Then he came in the room and started to undress…, actually it looked like a strip act… :-)
And finally he was stark naked and i looked at him…, gazed actually, since he looked so less boyish as i did! Lots of pubic hair and a raging hard on…, that was what i saw. Later i realised that this had to do with the medication he received.
He came over to me and dared me to touch his cock, to take it in my hands, to look at it… and i was a bit shocked, but complied anyway.
Then he removed the blankets i was under and started unbuttoning my pyjamas…, his touches made me hard as well and eventually he pulled down the trousers. Soon after i was naked too, feeling somewhat ashamed. So, there i was, sitting on my knees on the mattress, he standing next to it, with his hands slowly guiding my head to his cock. Nothing much was said. The outcome was inevitable. When his glans touched my lips, i mechanically opened my mouth. There i was…, sucking my first dick…, and soon after…, receiving my first cum… :-)

Of course we both ended in his bed and never bothered to put on our pyjamas again. He made me jerk him off once more and eventually he made me cum as well. We slept in each others arms and in the morning nothing was said about our activities. But every night in the week i stayed at his home we played…, or should i say, he played with me…

i guess these adventures helped to make me the bisexual submissive male i am today…

So much for my first submissive thing....

Greetings to All/all!

[aachicka]

the first submissive thing i did was masterbate in font of a Dom...he was also my best friend and just told me 2 start playing with myself one night when we were hanging out at my house...he was telling me every lil thing to do..but every time i was ready to cum he made me stop and wait....when i was finally allowed to cum it was awesome and he was my Dom for about 6 months after that.....

[sm1277]

The first submissive thing I did was dance for my partner, as I danced he woud tell me when I could take the next article of clothing off, when I was fully naked he told me to turn around and using one of his fraturnity paddles he turned my ass brite purple, it was very hot and I cam a number of times just from that. after he cleaned me up he told me to go down on him, I wanted to make him cum but every time he would get close he would pull away from me and slide his fingers into me to tease me some more.
that whole night was full of great moments, we got in the shower after playing for quite a while and I washed his hair and bathed him from head to toe, then towelled him off and gave him a massage.

[bearbeast]

finially after all these years i have found someone to "take away" my inner pain and explore many avenues, at present it's only been a week and we have made outfits and restraints and had some fun. it does help that my Mistress Rhiannon knows how to work leather, but not just that but in all sorts of material from wood to metal. we have come up with a number of ideas, but some of it has to wait until we move and get a bigger place (oh keep your fingers crossed) we have just been given a brick shed (oh I've been thinking it's not really that big to put stuff in I've had a grin on me all day.
bye bye for now.

[cts81]

After many years of being a sub (only in my head) I told my husband. That was about a week ago we "played" with the idea in the bedroom a first but last night was the first time we stayed in the dom/sub roles out side of foreplay (although the whole experiance was like forplay to me). He told me first of all to take all my clothes off. After that I had to ask his permission for everything ie could I have a drink, cigerette etc... sometimes he said yes sometimes he said no. If I tried to reason with him he would tell me to shut up, once he made me turn round and touch my toes while he spanked me. He also made me stand at the back door naked (our nieghbours could of seen me) when I treid to cover myself up he pushed me further owards the door and threaten to make me stand out in the yard if I didn't do as I was told. I loved every minute of it I love him dommming me more than I even thought I would.

[Desdemon]

Hmmm. I'd always enjoyed being restraned by my bf's, but never felt particularly submissive about it. Usually I was the one making the suggestions, etc. So I've only recently begun discovering my submissivness. I think the first concious thing I did was the first time he had me call him Sir. It took me a couple of times to catch onto what he was expecting, and the tone in his voice...., once I finally caught on, when I said 'Yes, Sir.', well, I realized that this had begun to mean more to me than just a bit of spicy sex. I'd used the term, half jokingly, in email many times, but never in person.

Saying it still makes me feel extremely vulnerable...

[tkk098]

It's been a while since i've posted. Might as well post here. Anyway, earliest submissive things i can remember all involved getting tied up somehow. I just have some sense of wanting it to happen, thus it does. First actual thing besides that, wound up, unfortunately, being a guy 3 years younger than me. We were both teens at the time. I lost a bet, and if i lost, i was supposed to suck him. Well, my sub. instincts were kicking in, and i didnt really want to be a 'sore loser'. (Kinda sounds corny). So I did it that night, then I wound up doing it willingly several times afterwards (different nights, ofcorse).

Well. That's kinda awkward to get out. Anyway, i'm just bisexual. I dont consider myself a gay person, since i'm attracted to girls.

[MayYellow]

Now, as a kid I always liked being tied up to chairs and things like that, but never thought of it in a sexual way....until recently. So my boyfriend and I were talking about what we might like to do in the bedroom and I brought up that I'd like to be spanked. It only escalated from there. When I went over to visit, we had quite the time. He pulled me around by my hair, bent me over his knee, and spanked me 'til my little bum was bruised. Then he fucked me senseless and finished off by cumming all over my face. My favorite part was how he ordered me around. It was like nothing we had ever done, and I'm hooked on it.