As others have stated in this thread, a collar is a symbol as is a wedding ring. The meaning and power behind it is dependant on the couple involved.
Having said that. childbride finds she feels a sense of security, contentment and reasurance in wearing hers. she will often touch the silver chain that is her permanent collar in times of stress or when I am not with her and find comfort in it.
Her house collar is fur lined leather and wearing it (when she can. we have kids) intensifies the feelings she gets from her permanent collar.
Hmm I realy aught to point her to this thread she caould most likely bescribe her feelings better than my stumblings.
childbride is a slave. Perhaps our outlook differs to many, but we came from a long marriage before we started exploring the lifestyle and Mutualy decided what we wanted out of it. she craves the control, desires to serve, yet still has a voice, spirit, opinions, and offers advice. She was my wife a long time before she became my slave and that partnership is still in existance and always will be. We are also monogomous by choice. that little line in the marriage vows "cleave unto no other" is a cornerstone to our partnership and a solid belief
Yes I can dictate what she will wear, eat, and do, but that is what we both wanted at the outset and works for us.
At the end of the day it is what works for the people involved. everyone has a different set of desires and ideals. So long as the relationship is happy it is a case of live it love it
Paul