Very good topic. In my limited experience of BDSM, I have come to learn rather quickly that for me, a Dom has to respect me as a person, care about me as an individual and make my safety as important to him as it is to me.

If My Sir had had no regard for those things, it would feel demeaning and the results would make me feel a whole bunch of ugly things. He knows what I have to offer Him, and what I am offering to Him. He accepts my submission to him as a gift, and within the scene..he expects my submission, but that is what I give to him and he recieves it and respects it as His.

His pleasure