Abused

[Donatien]

i think this limited thought and action often causes us to mess up relationships and opportunities and only then do we notice our own behaviour. i don't necessarily think this is always "submissive or appeasing" though, speaking personally my own insecurities and...past issues often manifested in anger, it was a pure defense mechanism, but it prevented anyone from getting really close to me..and, in the mean time, pushed people away because they were hurt by it.sl

eggwetter gree!
We all have our preferred "childhood " defence, whether it is to hide, runaway, appease, pretend it isn't/hasn't happened ( turning it into a complete no go area), get stroppy etc.
I am sure my list is by no means comprehensive.
Why not let us know of yours?