So, if you take a good look at my profile, you'll see I'm a switch. I haven't been doing any sub type roles at all. But one thing I noticed about Emily is that she loves to tease, even if it gets her in trouble.
So I proposed a little something extra. A part that could satisfy my switchiness self. Everytime she's allow an orgasm, so am I, everytime I tell her to edge, I have to do the same. She loved the idea, so uptil now this is just an example of a switch living both ways while assuming a dom/me position.
So after talking a bit after that, the conversation somehow steered to not having sex for a good month. I told her that she wouldn't be able to endure no orgasms for a month, and she was adament that she could. So a challenge was set, and long story short, she and I will deny ourself of orgasms for an entire month. We have to edge once each morning, and there are punishments for breaking the rules.
I still can get her to do tasks, and other stuff that would give me an unfair advantage, but I'm not complaining.
So yes...if anyone out there has tried something like this, any advice in how to endure this month would be appreciated. I'm going to be taking a lot of cold showers this month.