I say whatever happens in a dream doesn't count as cheating. One can't consciously control oneself when one is in sleepy-time land. One might be able to control another, but not oneself. Unless that's the dream. In that case, I'm now confused about onself and another and one.

And Rhabbi, I have orgasms in my dreams. (woohoo) Emily might just have the same happen with her. So I would be thinking that all bets are off in the land of dreams.

I think both y'all are crazy for doing this, but good luck anyway!

tessa