Quote Originally Posted by ProjectEuropa
I've always wanted to ask but never had the guts for fear of everyone's wrath coming down on me, is how can one have a D/s relationship online with two people that hardly know each other. I had a very serious relationship and fucked up because I was so good at misinterpreting everything. Maybe seriousness was the problem, it mattered when I fucked up.

Oh well, I've come to the conclusion I'm crap at relationships, the harder I try the more I fuck up and the less I try the more successful I seem. If I haven't fathomed relationships at my age, it's not going to happen. I know all the theory, it's the fucking practice that is beyond me!

I need a little Leonard Cohen for cathartic reasons.
Um..i'm confused...what WAS the question then?!?! LOL You said, i think "How can one have a Ds relationship with two people who hardly know each other?"...., this is a little ambigious (to say the least!)...do you mean how can one person have a relationship with two people? Or did you mean how can people have a relationship online? Or did you mean how can two people have a relationship online with someone they don't know? If the latter - 'tis easy, you get to know 'em! You couldn't possibly have any sort of relationship otherwise.

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