I am with Rhabbi in the fact that I have all ways been a Dominate, even as a child I lead all my sports teams even when I wasn't the best player on the field. I struggled with anger and rage due to my home life and that was the hardest thing to overcome. I took up a flogger less then a year ago because I have been whipped by my mother so say it as an abuse instrument.

This may sound confusing to you but being a Dom or Master comes naturally to me, and I live for the trust and respect that is part of the sub/slave gift.