Hey thanks for the ideas. I think the video is out of the question right now. She hates porno as is. Refuses to watch even the soft stuff on late at night. I'm a porn freak and have tried from every angle to get her to watch but it's a no go.

Usually when we have time, about once a week, she gets a full body massage, back, butt, legs and feet and I suck on her toes. She does enjoy that. Then I go down on her and amazingly she often lets me lick her asshole. I basically told her and continue to tell her I have a fetish for her bumm and she now just lets me have my fun.

I like the idea of the bites and nibbles. I will gently encourage her when she gets playful with it from time to time.

Thanks again all