Kat,
I love your experience and now it puts together the pictures Barton posted, I could feel how the whole scene was put together.
I feel like that is what I am looking for also. a "more man than me" I always thought I had to be aggressive, better, smarter and tougher to prove I am a strong woman with desires but that I can also submit. It just goes to show, that I might be right and continue to search to be all of it wrapped in a nice package, and will be able to serve as you do, with the reminders of who's "more man than me"
Thanks for sharing
T