Sivesh, Wearing a collar all the time is a beautiful thing.
Rhabbi, thank you for the input. SO the best thing to do is ignore the question?

See the thing is this. I think people ask or do stupid things because they dont have the right infomation about D/s or bdsm. I was hoping there would be a way to help people understand us a little better, when they ask us questions. I dont think fully ignoring the question will help them understand d/s or bdsm anymore. They will only think we are snobish or rude if we just ignore them. I understand also that sometimes the questions and or the people are rude, but if we act like the better person and anwser these questions it will not only help them understand d/s and bdsm but also making them think twice about asking someone a stupid question.

But maybe thats just me.