LOL Who said anything about sexual? I'm just talking about one sure-fire way to get a spanking. I would hate to think of a submissive actually having to beg for a spanking. That's just wrong. I try to make sure mine gets a fair share of them on her own. Hehehe...

Of course, spankings aren't the only fun thing one can do with their submissive. Just having them crawling on a leash in front of you is a nice touch, too.



Originally posted by His_little one
I love Tourguides suggestion of crawling naked with his belt between my teeth, but i truly think he would have a heart attack- we haven't gone the "sexual" route yet and i think going to that extreme with no warning he would be so shocked he wouldn't know what to do, and "me" would surely not be it.

I guess i'm still stuck in that awkward transition stage where i'm trying to test the boundaries and his patients. As noted some Dom's are angered at their sub's challenge of "make me" while others seem to be playfully instigated by it. Mine on the other hand - well, who knows. I guess my other dilemma is this exactly - i am trying to test him, trying to figure out where all my boundaries are i'm learning they don't exist- i'm sure any sub can agree with me when i say this is a scary thing, we need limits and consequences for when we cross those lines- it reminds us we're cared for and looked after.

Hmm, perhaps i just solved part of my own problem, maybe this will aspect will get through to him.

Ohh, i hope i haven't filled any ones head with misconceptions about him, he truly is an all around wonderful person....