I agree. Having a prtner that gets seriously angry just because you want some attention doesn't sound like someone I would want to play with personally.

However, I do not agree that submission is a gift. You don't submit to someone because you don't want anything in return. You submit to someone and expect them to dominate you. There's no exchange of gifts, it's a relationship, which is the same thing as a contractual negotiation.

I offer to Little One and others new to the lifestyle the link to the BDSM Library Academy Dungeon. I recommend that those of you that have questions to have a look at it. It's growing all the time.

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/dungeon/




Originally posted by bbeale7
That line "He just gets seriously angry" Concerns me.
Does he not realise what a wonderous gift he has in your submision. The fact that he has a woman that even will consider relenting control in a relationship is a great gift.