Quote Originally Posted by learner
We have been married for 13 years and it is only in the last 12 months that I have allowed my desire for subsmission to surface - too much Story of O at an impressionable age! - but I'm not sure that my husband is in to it as much as me. I can only do submissive when I have had too much to drink - i guess that the real test of my dedication is when I can do it sober. And we have nipple clamps (which I love!) and vibrators and apparantly a paddle (I can't wait). It is all very new to us and I wish that my husband could get some guidance as to what it takes to be dominant (as this is not his natural position - up until now) it is causing real conflict.
be carefull, personaly i will not do bdsm when drunk.

My first and only submissive thing ive done was allow my gf to tie me up, and of course to follow her commands for an evening (same scene). was actually rather funny, i still consider myself a dom though Oh allmost forgot, it was rather recent, only a month or so ago. I might do it again, if she forces me to it