Quote Originally Posted by Ruby
Not sure if I should start a new thread for this question:

What about the doms who are poly online, but lead each and every one of their subs to believe that she is the only one?

Do we say he's keeping a stable? Being unfaithful if the others don't know?

Nightstriker/Moderator - if these questions belong elsewhere please move to a new thread. Thanks, Ruby
I'd say this is a fine place for those questions, since it is still in essence along the same lines as the original.

The difference between cheating and consent is knowledge. If a dominant has more than one submissive, even online, and isn't telling each of them about the others, then he's cheating.

He is keeping a stable, but he's also being unfaithful to all of him through his dishonesty.