Quote Originally Posted by BDSM_Tourguide
I'd say this is a fine place for those questions, since it is still in essence along the same lines as the original.

The difference between cheating and consent is knowledge. If a dominant has more than one submissive, even online, and isn't telling each of them about the others, then he's cheating.

He is keeping a stable, but he's also being unfaithful to all of him through his dishonesty.
I agree 100% with you TG...it is amazing to me that people still think they can get away with it, especially on a site such as this. We have a lot of newcomers to the forums, but some of you (and me too) have been around here awhile...long enough to make good friends and maybe even play a little. I think that all those newcomers who are here to flirt only should say so. It's not a bad thing to flirt with several different people. It is wrong though to make each one of them think they are the only one that you would talk to like this. Or to tell one of them that you have formally chosen them as your own, then go and send "pussy meltdown" PM's to other forum members. And yes I'm once again speaking from experience! For all I know he sent the same PM to each of us...so beware all! And could someone please help me to stop being so fucking naive?? Oh well...live and learn, huh?

~ltp~