Humour is vital for me. I dared not hope I would ever find a man who had a blacker sense of humour than I have, but yay I did! :-)

And I think it is just as important in bed, dungeon or wherever. If you want something serious, always pretty, perfect, never ever odd - go watch a movie, they had the time and means to cut out everything that did not fit the picture... real life is no film.

As for S/M in particular: My husband is able to make me laugh (for no reason) in the middle of a session, and then he says "you are thinking I am funny, don´t you" and whips me for it. The harder I try to stop, the more I giggle, and the more I get beaten. I found this an amazing experience. And sorry, I have no idea how he does it. He will not tell :-)

And MajesticFae - your comment gave me a serious case of laughing fit! *lol*

Kind regards
A.