Well! I didn't post a reply straight away when I read learningtopleez side of the story, which filled in alot of the missing gaps. I slept on them, I wondered if I was too quick to judge and comment.

I reread what you wrote Sirken and my reply. I, like many others, didn't know about it until you posted it.

And I do feel uneasy when a man seperates a woman from her family, friends and support group. Many abusive men do this (and I'm not suggesting you are one).

I, and others as well I would say, were wondering about the punishment learningtopleez was going through. Never leave a woman to speculate about anything . It can be damn right dangerous.

As publicly aired all this is, so to is my sincere appologies to you, Sirken. And I do most sincerly wish you and learningtopleez all the best in your relationship together as a couple.

Please accept my hugs, kisses, and best, best wishes.

caitlin