What was the first submissive thing you did?

[Slave Speak]

just a lil' thread revival...

Originally Posted by LadyAmanda
When you first decided to follow the d/s lifestyle, what was the first thing you did, or had done to you?

Was it a little bit of light bondage? Or a spanking? Or maybe you were ordered to please your dom. with no pleasure for you?

There seem to be some people here that are fairly new to this, and I just thought we could give them some ideas ...

i've had fantasies of being spanked and dominated by girls ever since i was 12. i searched our secondary school library for literature on spanking and during the internet boom, spent countless hours browsing through sites such as corpun.com and spankingarchives.com. but no one ever knew i was into it. i guess was scared that i had feelings and stirrings of this kind. it was only as i browsed through the net did i realize that it was normal to have these fantasies. but still it was a closely kept secret of mine. until i met my girlfriend.

as our relationship grew, we started opening up to each other and it wasn't long till she found me out. the first thing i did after telling her my secrets was to ask her to spank me. i gave her a leather belt, dropped my pants and underpants and bent over the bed. but she was so concerned about hurting me that she ended up in tears. i assured her that it was ok, and little by little she started enjoying it as well. she just became my mistress a couple of months ago and is really seriouys about her dominating me. what used to be hesitant taps with the belt on my bottom are now searing strokes of the cane that bruises my buttocks real good. and she makes me wear a collar too and sometimes, doesn't allow me to wear clothes. i can just say that i'm really happy to oblige. we plan to marry soon.

[alura]

just a lil' thread revival...
i've had fantasies of being spanked and dominated by girls ever since i was 12. i searched our secondary school library for literature on spanking and during the internet boom, spent countless hours browsing through sites such as corpun.com and spankingarchives.com. but no one ever knew i was into it. i guess was scared that i had feelings and stirrings of this kind. it was only as i browsed through the net did i realize that it was normal to have these fantasies. but still it was a closely kept secret of mine. until i met my girlfriend.

>>>I have a confession to make. I used to get in trouble on purpose, just to get a spanking. *sigh....boy that felt good!*<<<<

[Enclosed Lady]

>>>I have a confession to make. I used to get in trouble on purpose, just to get a spanking. *sigh....boy that felt good!*<<<<

Lol, I do something close, I don't keep my mouth shut just to get a gag, then I moan very loud to get a bigger gag. What can I say...I'm a gag freak!
[]'s EL

[Blue_Monday]

>>>I have a confession to make. I used to get in trouble on purpose, just to get a spanking. *sigh....boy that felt good!*<<<<

Oh, who *hasn't*?


The first sub thing I ever had to do was call my Master "Sir." As much as I was dying for a D/s relationship, that was really hard. I struggled with it a lot, and he gave me plenty of time to come to terms with it.

Unfortunately, the relationship didn't get much past that. I think part of the reason I struggled was because I didn't really feel secure with him--for good reason, as it turned out.

The first *fun* sub thing I did was to write erotica on demand! He would give me a few story parameters (2 guys, 1 girl, a ball gag, and 3 nipple clamps) and a deadline. It was *so* hard to concentrate, writing something sexy and knowing that it was an "assignment."

[solesta]

My first submissive thing that I can remember was when my Master came up to my home and He had me get the room ready for a ritual that he had planned to do to collar me in. I was in the pleasure slave position in the circle grounding and sucked his cock when he told me to. It was intense and my legs under my knees fell asleep and when the ritual was over the pain from the blood going back was intense. Then he had me drawl him a tub of water and light a candle and bath him. That ritual I will never forget it tied me to him in ways that will last forever.

[death penguin]

Arguably, the first submissive thing i did was a pair of rope cuffs to the bed...but everyone i know has a pair of cuffs these days...

The first time i really felt submissive was when my gf sat on my face, while I was wearing my first butt plug. I ate her out while she leaned back and massaged my naughty bits. The view...and the feeling...were incredible. We don't do much outright dom/sub stuff (yet), but we have our moments.

Meh- I havent used my toys in a while- gotta wait for her roommate to go out over the weekend...ah, college life