Quote Originally Posted by BDSM_Tourguide
I don't think that's entirely accurate. I believe a real dominant should have to tame or break a submissive. The submissive should have a desire to serve and obey in the first place.
I dont agree completely with that, after all its not all subs who desires to have their will broken. I believe it is possible to teach a sub without having to break them. The way i imagine doing that is by communication, when the sub does something wrong the punishment works better (in my view) if the sub has been convinced that what she/he did was wrong. I dont see that as taming or breaking the sub, but perhaps im wrong? After all i am not sure of all the terms flying around this place