I agree with your post tessa and Understand where you are coming from. And I think finding the right person to sumit to is a big thing. I am currently in training now with my master, and I struggle with it because I am strong willed, and out in the real world I like to be in control (i.e. with my job). But I want to be the best slave I can for her, and I know I am capable. It just takes work on both our parts