Quote Originally Posted by tessa View Post
I'm learning from the Dominants here that the challenge submissives like that present doesn't make us worthless or useless.
Isn't the notion contradictory? Just the fact that a submissive is willing to let herself be humiliated by me and be my doormat, makes her highly valued and useful. I'm marrying my doormat on Saturday. I value her more than life itself. I can't think of a more valuable person in my entire life.

She's highly submissive. I don't like the term docile, because in my mind that's connected to strong medication...but she always obeys my every command. So far since we've met she has only gone against my orders once, and it was quite a trauma for her, (and this was before the whipping).

But she's also very opinionated, (not to mention smarter than me) and we have plenty of debates and discussions about a variety of subjects. My point is that I see no conflict between being extremely submissive and training your Master to suit your needs.

After all I do love her and I try my best to make her happy, without violating my own highly selfish needs.