[QUOTE=smartass kitten]Thank you e.b.

It's just that I don't feel it would be right to ask a Dom(me) to try and work past the mess someone else left behind (ie me).

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Actually that is not true if the Dom/Master is experienced in r/t and has a good understanding of psychology and behavior modification. It does take time to overcome past damage of abuse, but that abuse can be turned into a strength.

Don't underestimate yourself as a person.