This is a good thread isn`t it? Lots of people joining the discussion.
The first submissive thing of any note began with a conversation while on holiday with my boyfriend of 3 years (the one my mother described as the first one to get on the playing field....) Admittedly we were a few G + Ts worse for wear (and I know many people here do not go in for that)
Anyway the long and short of it was a very exciting conversation resulting in him becoming my Dom. Something I had only fantasised about being possible in a relationship. We agreed that we were very much excited by the idea of me being tied tightly by him and soundly spanked. 4 years later we are married and it is a wonderful situation.
Although my mouth does get away with me still and I sometimes act inappropriately to this day, I receive the punishment I deserve...