pita and I have been on the site for only a week. I'm very proud of her for what she's accomplishing, and for what she has done already in learning to submit. She makes me work to keep up with her growth, and because I am new like her, there is a lot of growing for us both to do.

She is an amazing challenge to me, though she never seems to understand that. She challenges my mind, spirit, and heart on a daily basis. And when we are together, I'm sure the challenges will be physical as well. It's not only been interesting but feels like a whole new world has opened up.

I wonder if some of you old timers at BDSM recall the thrills of starting out.

The training that we do together now I'm hoping will stand us in good stead for the future, and make the transition when we are together easier. Am I right that cyber training transfers to a RL relationship?

I can sense that there are some of you rolling your eyes while you read our posts. I don't blame you. pita is the one who discovered the forum. We registered because of the comfort we felt with the attitude of those who post here, and with coming here as newbies for feedback as we experiment and learn. Feel free to post your reactions or reflections as we'll take it seriously and, of course, we'll feel free to adjust your comments to fit our needs!

TIA.