Pita,
I also started out with a long distance D/s relationship. We started out with just e-mail. He would assign tasks, and I would report back. Then came phone calls, hot long phone calls, yum. Then I got a trip to where he was, (I was an over the road truck driver at the time), and we met in person. We started out the first year only seeing each other face to face four times. But the e-mail and phone calls in-between kept us both wanting more. He did take control of all my orgasm eventually, and I had a love/hate relationship with that aspect of things. I was always turned on by having to ask for such a basic need, frustrated many times when it was 2am and I didn’t want to wake him, but never more into being His. We are still together and now married, so there are many happy endings. Going from long distance to real life is a challenge. In real life there are lawns to mow, bills to pay, and jobs. Just keep communication open and honest and all needs can be met. For now enjoy that wonderful feeling of new love and lust. The desire you feel now can be kept burning through all its metamorphosis’s, with work, commitment, and constant fanning of the flames.
Enjoy the ride!
Jasmine