Quote Originally Posted by albear View Post
as it has been said, submission can be a hard thing to come to terms with (and i'd wager being dominant can be too) it's easier to be bratty so that you feel like you don't have a choice about submitting.
YES! *nods emphatically* I agree that it's much easier for me to submit if I'm "forced" than it is for me to obey a politely made request. Hmm....I guess it kinda takes all the responsibility off of me to just do something willingly. I need to think about this some more.