Remember, Gor is pure fantasy. It may contain good (and bad) philosophies, but they are all based on what a human writer fantasised about once upon a time, possibly in a cold, dark and lonely room.
I sometimes wonder if those who follow gorean lifestyles actually believe that human beings can learn something deep and meaningful from acting out gorean roleplays, which they could not learn another way from humanity itself.
I'm not attacking goreans, and I'm not telling you to decline acceptance of those rules - but keep in mind, Gor isn't real, nor are the rules.
TYWD